You’ve tried being “positive.”
You’ve tried saying affirmations, working harder, people-pleasing less…
But none of it lasts. Because deep down, your nervous system still believes:
“It’s not safe to set boundaries.”
“If I say no, they’ll leave.”
“I’ll only be loved if I give more.”
Until we rewire those beliefs in your body, no mindset trick will stick.
That’s where Awaken Her begins.
You say no without spiraling in guilt
You stop second-guessing your worth at work, in love, and with family
You speak up without rehearsing your truth a hundred times
You finally feel safe choosing yourself — and proud of who you’re becoming
Because it’s not your mindset. It’s your nervous system.
You’ve been conditioned to survive — not to feel safe being seen. And until your body knows it’s safe to take up space, no mindset tool will stick.
This is the missing piece. Confidence doesn’t come from forcing your way forward. It comes from creating safety — in your body, your boundaries, and your sense of self.
That’s why I created Awaken Her.
This is for you if:
This is not for you if:
Yours free when you sign up for Relaxed Money using my link below.
This is your sign to stop forcing, hustling, and hiding—and start healing your relationship with money from the inside out.
Let’s get personal. In this private call, I’ll help you release your #1 money block, rewire your “not enough” story, and map out your next aligned step to feel safe receiving more.
This call alone has helped my clients land new jobs, open to unexpected income, and stop sabotaging their own growth.
Most money programs don’t address the nervous system. This bonus helps you calm fear, guilt, or anxiety around receiving and holding money so your body can finally believe it’s safe to have more.
Use it anytime you feel triggered around money.
If you were raised to believe success = struggle, or that it’s selfish to want more… this is for you.
Inside, you’ll uncover the hidden stories that shaped your money behavior—and learn how to gently rewrite them.
Most money programs don’t address the nervous system. This bonus helps you calm fear, guilt, or anxiety around receiving and holding money so your body can finally believe it’s safe to have more.
Use it anytime you feel triggered around money.
If you were raised to believe success = struggle, or that it’s selfish to want more… this is for you.
Inside, you’ll uncover the hidden stories that shaped your money behavior—and learn how to gently rewrite them.
Most money programs don’t address the nervous system. This bonus helps you calm fear, guilt, or anxiety around receiving and holding money so your body can finally believe it’s safe to have more.
Use it anytime you feel triggered around money.
If you were raised to believe success = struggle, or that it’s selfish to want more… this is for you.
Inside, you’ll uncover the hidden stories that shaped your money behavior—and learn how to gently rewrite them.
Most money programs don’t address the nervous system. This bonus helps you calm fear, guilt, or anxiety around receiving and holding money so your body can finally believe it’s safe to have more.
Use it anytime you feel triggered around money.
A guided 8-minute Guilt Reset meditation, breathwork ritual, and journaling prompts to break the people-pleasing cycle when guilt creeps in.
Includes 12 plug-and-play scripts for saying no to your mom, boss, friends, or partner. Get the exact words + audio support.
Get access to short audio activations to embody your next-level self before your mind says you’re ready.
This mid-program call gives you direct coaching when old habits start creeping in again. We pause. We redirect. We rise.
This mid-program call gives you direct coaching when old habits start creeping in again. We pause. We redirect. We rise.
I help women—especially those who grew up in traditional families—break free from the toxic stories running in their minds, so they can finally feel safe receiving more: more money, more love, more freedom.
But I didn’t always feel safe with money.
A few years ago, I was stuck in a job that paid the bills but drained my soul. As an immigrant, a mother, and someone raised to “not want too much,” I carried so much guilt around earning money, spending on myself, and dreaming bigger. Every step forward came with anxiety, shame, or self-doubt.
No matter how much I learned about budgeting or mindset—something always pulled me back.
What changed everything?
Learning to regulate my nervous system, rewrite the beliefs I inherited, and stop outsourcing my worth to productivity or praise.
Now, I blend mindset coaching, somatic tools, and belief reprogramming to help other women just like you. When I found Kate Northrup’s work, it felt like the missing puzzle piece—finally, a way to approach money with compassion, calm, and feminine energy.
That’s why I wholeheartedly recommend Relaxed Money.
And why I created these bonus tools to walk beside you every step of the way—because I know how deep this healing can go.
You’re not behind. You’re just beginning a new story.
And I’d be honored to help you write it.
All of this for $1949
Therapy can give insight.
But Awaken Her is about integration.
We move from awareness to action, from analysis to embodiment, gently, in real time, with tools that help you shift as things come up in your actual life.
Your nervous system is your body’s inner alarm system — it decides whether you feel safe or stuck.
This work helps you respond instead of react. It teaches your body that you can say no, rest, or speak up… without guilt or shutdown.
Think of it like this: therapy helps you understand the past.
This kind of coaching helps you shift the now.
You’ll be guided through tools, practices, and belief rewiring that helps you stop looping and start leading yourself — from softness, not survival.
When you sign up through my link, you’ll receive all the bonuses listed above!
Just send a copy of your receipt to hi@withrubychen.com, and I’ll send you everything you need to access your bonuses.
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